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for my husband's reception on 10th June 2012,we wore blue colour
my PIL hired the wedding planner, who was arrange everything
including makeup, what bride n groom been wearing, everything
the only thing that we hired, the photog.others were taking care by them
i was not involve in any of the planning. i think, that the best decision for me.
the wedding was the first in the family. i understand their excitement and just want to make them happy.
so, not objection in any of their decision.

the pro's: everything was taking care. no need to pening kepala bout the reception.coming down as a bride and everything was running smooth.more organize with the schedule prepared

the con's: of course, before the day, it may not be your liking and you heart is full of curiosity and wondering.haha..but, it may turn out one of your happiest day ever!and yeah, you can't complain anything!!

the makeup
erm, i dont like the lipstick on most of the picture.it look pale and i don't think i'm suited with pink colour.seriously, i hate that and the colour on my face. i thing it should be more natural and she could use other blue. At first it was just okay and i didnt't expect anything as it was included in the package. and the way it turn out on the camera, i didn't check it properly. big mistake. should test on the camera before and told her immediately!man, i do feel regret when look on the picture.haha..but, no harm here

the wedding  garments
no complain as it was my MIL choice. and they were not so much blue left at the boutique. so, i zip things up.hehe..as long as she were happy.but i am vey fattttt!no one to blame but myself.cehh!

the pelamin, bilik and wedding decoration
one thing that i should remember, it was all nicely deco. since i didn't expect anything, it was better than what i have in my mind.haha..i mean, they have everything.centrepiece, the cake cutting corner, the walkaway.nicely set and done.pelamin also beautifully setted.bilik pengantin is a bonus because the wedding was done at the hall.so, it was in the package.overall, i am thankful.

the arrangement
seriously, this need a lot of appreciation. runner told us what to do and guide us, they have the silat, kompang, selawat nabi, cutting cake caremony and zapin!well, johor kan. this is new to us as they have the joget and zapin being perform while we enjoying our makan beradap. thumbs up! no need to ponder on anything. all were nicely arrange by them. the PA system also did a very good job.they even want us to make a speech, my PIL, my parents and us, pengantin!nervous okay time nak bercakap.

photography session
during my side, we don't have time to take a picture with the whole clan.as we were the host. so during his side, we were able to take pictures either with my side or his side. and the outdoor, buat dekat shoplots je kau!hahahaha..pengantin penat and we just agree with their suggestion. afterall, it was late in the evening and the reception ended around 6pm.alhamdulillah.may people came at his side maybe because the next day is the first day after school holiday and i think, its the penutup of all the kenduri during that school break, and well, this was the first wedding in his family.

so in my conclusion, i am very thankful, grateful and deeply in debt to my PIL to organize such a truly amazing reception for both of us. we both agree that, we just followed what have been prepared for us with open arms. So, i think i am more happy with the way it was. truly a blessing for both of us. i cant express how much i feel so honored and blessed. Despite the lack here and there, the most important thing, wedding is for everybody to share the happiness and not for the sake of bride's only. Something to ponder :)