Aysa Haniya birth story

Since I have free time during my confinement day, let me update the birth story of our 3rd baby. Since Amna dengan Ammar lahir awal dari due date, so I was kind expect the same thing with baby no 3. My due date was 14th June, which is the last day of puasa. So, hari ahad (3/6) I still came to the lab since I have pending work. Semua pun macam dah pelik, why am I still datang lab. Tapi haritu memang dah rasa macam sakit-sakit, in fact, dah rasa sakit-sakit ni since masuk bulan puasa kan. It's like acah-acah manja ja. I do record the contraction time, it was inconsistence so memang bukan betul-betul nak bersalin. Hari ahad tu memang rsa sakit lagi kuat than before. I called my husband, suruh dia bawa beg baju, masukkan a few things yang tak sempat masuk, bawa buku merah and asked him to put inside his car. Tapi sampai ke sudah, dia acah-acah main ja. Hahaha.. so isnin pun still datang lab, sebab hantar both of them to school. Hari isnin tu dah plan nak merayap dengan kawan-kawan esoknya since dah tengah hari, nanti rushing nak balik rumah, jammed orang balik kerja lagi.

So hari selasa, keluarla kitaorang merayap ke BBU nak cari tudung, and I wanted to buy baju raya baru dekat radiusite sebab tersalah beli baju Amna before, terbesar and kt radiusite je yang ada emerald colour for kids. My friends were joking, if it was happened to be that day, memang derang terus hantar g hospital jerla. Hahaha..so dah habis jalan dekat BBU tu, pusing jakel, ariani semua, dapat la beli tudung yang duk berkenan sangat. Balik lab around 3.30 sampai. Semua pun bergilir-gilir solat. So after solat, rasa penat sangat. Sementara tunggu nak solat asar then nak ambik budak2 tu, I was resting on chair. Time tu rsa macam ada discharge yang keluar. I thought it was only discharge la, tapi macam pelik rasa macam banyaknya. Sebabkan dah tak larat, i guess nanti baru nak p ambik wudhuk lain, ganti pantyliner ka apa kan, p la baring dekat tempat kami biasa solat tu. But,the water keep on coming, pegang kain dah basah. Terus bangun and tengok dah meleleh dah. Before, memang tak pernah keluar air ketuban, so macam panik and I did asked rohani if that was air ketuban. dah macam confirm air ketuban, terus call husband bagitau. Sebabkan takdela rasa sakit sangat,dia nak solat dulu.

Like pukul 5 dia sampai depan lab, terus g ambik amna and ammar. I keep on asking him, nak beranak dah ke.haha macam tak percaya and tetiba tak bersedia pulak. Singgah rumah sekejap, ambik baju depa (yes, i forget to pack their attires. ya Allah, macam mana ntah boleh lupa). My husband nak hantar ke hospital dulu then baru nak hantar anak. eh no no, rasanya untuk baby no 3 ni, mesti cepat. Mesti tak sampai pagi esok kan, jangan la buat pasal. dah la bulan puasa. HSI tu dekat je dengan our house like 15 -20 mins, but kalau dengan jammed semua, kang tak pepasal sejam lebih. Dia punya mengelabah, takut wife dia nak beranak sangat. Haha..this time memang bertekad la nak suh dia teman kan, so memang tak la nak lepas dia. hahaha..

Dah setel, we arrive HSI around 6.30. Daftar and terus g tempat saringan tu, there were 2 Chinese and 1 indian Dr, asking few questions. Time tu dia cakap only 3cm and membrane still intact, maybe tadi air ketuban tu tak fully pecah. But they positive yang I will deliver that day, not acah-acah manja semua. So dalam puku 7.30, nurse datang tanya if nak jumpa suami or nak makan.Bulan puasa kan, before tu pun berbuka dengan sebiji kurma and minum air je. Nak singgah bazar beli makanan pun takde mood, rasa nak beranak ja ni. Haha but seriously, kering bibir semua. Memang tawakkal la nak bersalin ni.

 After like 5 minutes camtu, dah rasa dah contraction yang tak boleh tahan tu. Kalini memang dah penah rasa, so tau la dah dekat nak bersalin. Just berdoa jala bukak cepat and tak lama sangat sakit. I told dr rasa macam nak b*rak dah. So they came check, it was 9 cm terus tolak ke labour room (mb 9?) dengan aircond tak pasang lagi. haha..maybe tak ramai sangat kot. So dah siap pasang, dr cakap dah boleh bersalin. Haih being me. time tu memang tak datang la contraction tu. hahaha..so nampak my husband masuk dlm bilik tu. Macam lega la tapi rasa macam tak peduli dah dia tu. haha..dia duduk hujung kepala, pegang sambil usap-usap kepala ja kot. haha tak ingat dah dia cakap apa. i think, dia pun blur sebab first time tengok isteri bersalin. After several push, keluar la Aysa Haniya. Alhamdulillah. the Dr so cute and baik sangat baik sangat-sangat. syukur. Rajin pulak dia sembang dengan patient after that. Tapi part kena jahit tu, ya Allah. rasanya antara ketiga-tiga, ini paling sakit. bahahaha..

Lepas ni, if due date time bulan puasa, tak pe la. maybe boleh ambik ruksah yang Allah bagi. seriously, i was so tired bibir semua kering. dehydrate tenaga pun macam kurang. maybe dah dekat-dekat nak bersalin, kita pun tak berselera sangat nak makan kan. so it's better la kalau dapat makan sikit. and kumpul tenaga. but, kalau ada hari yang boleh puasa, puasa jerla. so sekian la cerita bersalin Aysa.

Updated: After few days lahir, Aysa dapat jaundice la pulak. Paling tinggi berbanding kakak and abang. Nurse visit on the second day, suggest to checkup at KK HSI. Kalau dekat KK HSI, even ramai sangat orang, tapi procedure untuk jaundice ni cepat la. First reading dah 22. Terkejut mak nak. terus Dr warded sebab she was born not even 48 hours lagi, tapi dah tinggi. Siap kena naik ambulance, padahal KK and HSI tu on the same compound. We request untuk drive, tapi Dr suh jugak naik ambulance. Maybe ada parents yang taknak warded then depa tak p situ kot. So, me and husband sedih ja. Duduk dalam ambulance pun, dua-dua diam. Dah la nak raya kan. tetiba anak kena warded. We both macam pasrah la. If anything,kena tahan lama ka apa, we decide sampai dah clear, baru kami balik kluang. Tak kisah la if raya kt jb pun. Jb kluang pun dekat. tak rasa nak raya pun. All we can think is bout Aysa. I really can't look at her when she was warded at NICU. Everytime tinggal anak under that damn UV lamp, it feels so surreal. Kesiannya, she seem so small to be left there. The Dr explains that, if bacaan tak turun, maybe she had to undergo the process blood transfer. Last2, kami sign jugak paper consent tu untuk safety. Alhamdulillah, after 3 days, finally, she can come back home. Dan alhamdulillah jugak, jaundice Aysa ni not prolonged jaundice. It was clear in 3 weeks time.