isteri idaman suami

haritu, sempat la tengok wanita hari ini.last week rasa.
tajuknya ialah, isteri idaman suami, so boleh la layan untuk orang yang baru kawen like us
norman and memey was the invited guest
but,im not too interested in them
one thing that i truly remember, one of the other couple said
jangan tunggu pasangan 'menawan' untuk kita, but we have to 'menawan' pasangan dulu. i seriously adore that couple.wife menarik and soft spoken, suami pulak nampak bercharisma. sesuai sangat.

i love how he express that quote.i tend to wait for my husband to do his part
like, how he has to pujuk me when im getting angry.or he has to do everything i want.well, mengada-ngada memang macam ni.haha..

and here he is. the handsome chef.haha..chef 5 rencah 5 rasa, chef Sherson Lian.
he said that, he prefer to have a partner who do not have the same interest and sometimes sharing the same.well, balance in pro and contra.hehe..and lisda said, dia belajar perangai husband yang berlainan setiap tahun.haha..interesting. can't wait to observe mr husband!
well, let's strive to be a better person!

most precious gift

Alhamdulillah, Allah granted our wish to have a baby. I'm reaching my 20 weeks in few days.so I guess it's the right time to write the experience here

After getting married, we both had talked about the baby
but, never getting into any serious discussion
but I surely know that, my husband wanted the baby most
alhamdulillah. he never give any pressure or blame me or anything.
he just secretly wish that my P is not coming every month.haha..
and for me, I'm always accepted with open arm.If Allah granted our wish, i never thank enough

many married couple do advise that, do not feel the pressure to get pregnant immediately
we tend to get the same question whenever we go anywhere
even one of my friend, who recently having a baby, do ask me privately on fb just after the wedding.she advised me to make the baby ASAP like i don't want a baby.well.i don't know why people do that.
we were really really newlyweds. just give us some time
afterall, it's Allah plan, not us

it was in the mid Ramadhan.i remember one time, after having our Maqrib prayer, i looke at my husband face and secretly dua' that i'm pregnant on that holy month. so that, me,baby and husband can pray tarawikh together.
I started to notice that mr p is coming late.but never bother as some people said that, maybe our body is trying to adjust to the hormone after getting married. before this, my mr P is a very schedule person. i was in Penang at that time.i called my husband and we both just like, being so playful couple.behave like im pregnant and everything.hahaha..

but i do felt that, i tend to feel so tired easily. after subuh, i will sleep like no body business.
even, husband have to wake me up, and im half asleep, send him to the door, and wait impatiently for him to lock the door with eyes halfy shut down, and go straight to the bed.haah. to tired to say goodbye or even smile or wait patiently until he safely go to the office.hehe..

so, after getting late about 4 to 5 days, i know that something is wrong.
i told husband and he didn't want me to take the upt test alone. he really wanted to do that together
so, he bought me one clear blue digital upt tester back in JB.hehe..he did the survey alone. i just ask him to buy upt tester in whatever brand.i don't really care.haha..good job husband!

so the next wednesday, during sahoor, my husband was preparing the meals (im was so tired from the long journey..hee..) i was awake and remember to do the upt test.it's best to have the test in the early morning as our urine is very fresh at that time.eh nervous jugak rupanya.hahaha..
and wow, clear blue is so fasting in deliver the result!

eh terbalik.malas nak rotate.haha

i asked husband and told him that im not pregnant.hehe..just wanted to know what was his reaction.he's calmly said that, it's okay.maybe bukan rezeki. padahal, ada sedikit la rasa sedih kat muka dia.kahkahkah..
i gently ask him to look for himself. hahahaha..eh pregnant?hee..

we both actually, was very blur. we're not jumping on the couch like tom cruise or excitedly hug each other.
we just, calm. and I move to our bedroom and laid down. while thinking, what is the next step.haha..husband come and congratulate.seriously, like I won something.kahkahkah..and we both laugh and hug.that's the best.after that, terus straight pergi makan nasi. eh, macam takde feeling.nope. we just, lost for a words.

actually, im very afraid of anything happen to my pregnancy. i'll pray that Allah will protect us from any harm and my baby will be safe in the womb. it's not an easy job to have a baby. it's rezeki from Allah and Allah know when is the right time to give the most precious gift.Alhamdulillah. now, there are many things to consider. Im in the process of learning, becoming a daughter in law, a wife, and now a mother.
moga Allah mudahkan segalanya.insyaAllah.

akikah Ahmad Thaqif

on 16 nov, we did simple akikah for little Thaqif at my uncle's house

sekalikan dengan majilis berkhatan anak sepupu, hence, majlisnya adalah cukup syarat saja.hehe..

and a day before, baby Thaqif had cukur jambul

menangis-nangis dia.rasanya, maybe dia geli kot

his ayah, wan and paksu did the shaving part

sampai 3 orang sekali.siap terpaksa stop kejap. he did cry loudly

baby Thaqif ni sangattt la baik. he only ek ek je kalau nak susu.

high pitch pun bila time mandi and after bath

kalau malam-malam tidur pun, bunyi sikit je

kena alert.so,when he's crying out loud, menggelabah jugak

siap kakak dia pun nangis sekali.hahaha..

maybe dia ingat orang dera adik dia la kot.kahkahkah..

however, the next day, baby Thaqif meragam la pulak

tanak tidor unless we co-sleeping with him

berpassing la pagi-pagi nak bagi dia tidor.itu pun tak tidur lena.
kesian dia takut nanti bila dah start majilis, lagi susah to get his afternoon nap

the majlis start after solat Jumaat.

we reach earlier and had lunch.makan siap-siap

after solat Jumaat, the crowd arrive

tapi memang tak sempat melayan. we just lepak dalam rumah

and entertain cousin and friends yang lama tak jumpa

baby Thaqif is sleeping sepanjang majlis.sleepy baby.

tapi pantang je letak on matress, he's awake.

padahal tak buat apa pun.

but it feels so damn tired that day.

memang terlentok la.but i have to catch a bus to Kluang that night

naik bas, terus tidor.ngantuk tak ingat dah.alhamdulillah, safely reached Kluang the next day.

sleepyhead

my husband is a sleepyhead. kalau dah tidur, susah betul nak jaga unless kena shake sikit badan dia
or if it is his own biological clock.spontan la bangun kan
sampaikan, kalau alarm dia bunyik pun dia tak dengar even if it was just beside him.grr..

i was pissed off every morning cause of his alarm
sometimes, i take the phone and put it on his face.bahahaha...padan muka
ingatkan dia nak terjaga.sudahnya aku yang bingit telinga.
tepaksa kejutkan suruh turn off.dasar.padahal, boleh tutup sendiri kan.haha

one night, i was awake because i'm having bad headache
sambil amek tangan dia, suruh urut, i was nearly sleep off la
mula-mula rasa macam okey.but at last, he was like, cengkam my head and tak lepas
pergh.sakit gila!sebab dia tak sedar.sambil picit kepala sambil tidur. arghhh

i was having a cramp around my stomach
i take his hand suruh urut.and he did again. urut dalam separa sedar
he was putting a heavy pressure around my stomach and barely stop there
sakitnya.daripada sakit yang mild je terus hangin satu badan.hahaha
next time, i wont ask him to help me ease the pain if he was in deep sleep

but i admit. it was so wrong la nak kejutkan husband yang letih gila semata-mata sakit sikit.
ngada-ngada ka hapa ni.hahhaha..
tapi he was such damn good in giving massage.hehe..and actually, if he wasn't too tired, he's willing to help me.takde la macah nak pecah kepala.wakaka..
anyway, thank u husband even kena kejut tengah malam, u were never complain.sebab tak sedar kot!hahahaha

the three days weekend

on 14th sept we had a three days vacation, an impromptu one.

husband was visiting me after 2 weeks.

however, we don't have any proper plan

fetch him at 6 am in the morning

and perform our subuh at Shell Juru

then we drove to undecided-place while thinking where is the best place to catch up some time

and then, here come the idea.Cameron Highlands

he once told me that he really wanted to sighseeing Cameron as he never been there.kesian suami mak.haha

so, we make a u-turn at Georgetown and decided to have a breakfast at Nibong Tebal

pusing-pusing cari kedai makan and doing some observation

we had our roti canai and nasi lemak

then off to have some urgent matter

at 10 am, we started our journey.(i even called my mom to confirm where to exit at the highway)

i think this is first vacation since our honeymoon.

at 3pm, we already reached pekan Brinchang with heavy traffic there

crowded dengan pelancong i tell you

then off to find a place for one night stay

kalau dah nama public holiday, mana nak dapat hotel harga murah

as the rain making its appearance, semua pun dah kelam kabut cari tempat nak singgah

at last, we found a place at pekan Tanah Rata

and off to have an early dinner as we both didnt have proper lunch

sepanjang makan husband keep complaining bout the hotel

i thought its only him yang banyak sangat ragam.haha..

but after see it with my eyes, patut la.macam bilik pelac*r.scary sangat.

biliknya, alahai muat katil queen.siap ada tingkap nakong lagi.hahahahaha..seriously!!

but i guess, semua tempat dah penuh, so tourist grab je mana yang ada kan

that budget hotel penuh je dengan family.siap nampak pak aji lagi menyewa situ

so husband said, pak aji pun sanggup, so he guess we should be doing ok la kan.hahahaha..

Cameron hujan pulak sepanjang malam and pagi tu

malas nak keluar sebab sejuk.tapi, sebab tak sanggup duduk bilik yang macam tu, laju je bersiap.haha

siap husband compare kesejukan tu macam dekat Beijing la.pfft!menyampah..over sangat tau

so, on the way back, baru la singgah kea farm and others farm la

yang cactus ka sayur ka, semua tak masuk

ala, bukan nya boleh bawak balik pun kan.

dari dulu lagi teringin nak melawat ladang teh and memang requested, nak p melawat

tempat lain tak kesah sebab dah pernah p kan

so asek kejar la signboard Boh tea plantation tu, signboard dah la tak banyak.

siap google lagi nak tengok address dia.

ingatkan dah salah masuk jalan sekali bila dah terlepas tu baru perasan.cisss!!!hangin betol

tapi dah rezeki kot  as we saw a sign of Bharat tea plantation.

tak kesah la.janji dapat take a pic with daun teh

haha..over.selalu tengok gambar orang yang dekat Boh tu lagi cantik i guess, takpa la.dapat jugak..haha

Bharat Tea Plantation

a cup of tea and a slice of cheese cake

pokok-pokok

after that, at 3pm, we both headed back to Nibong Tebal.

next days, we just lepak hotel tengok tv.wahahhaa..

rasa macam tak nak p lagi short trip macam ni.

and i really really teringin nak p Grand Lexis PD tu.

dekat sikit kalau nak drive from Johor.

just to spend a time with husband. 

but, can't really squeeze through our time. we both been extra busy.grrr...

and i haven't go back to JB almost 2 months.rindu dengan rumah sendiri dah membuak-buak ni.

oh sabar..2 weeks only bebeh!lepas tu boleh dating sampai lebam.

not a judge

okey, let's not trying to be a judge here. this is just an opinion
after a very long time observing penyakit facebook ni,
i think i should said something. sapa lagi nak dengar kalau bukan blog sendiri kan.haha..

facebook.be it in positive way or in negative way.
semua orang tahu manfaat dia kan.
and sometimes, you can laugh it all out bila baca status some people.

if budak sekolah, you know they tend to write something like a message
'aque qase kan, aque demam law tak pie seckolah...'
rasa nak lempang je baca.
i guess, my youth hormone is no longer there.haha..
sometimes, update pasal crush la..kahkah...macam la dulu takde kan. tapi dulu takde facebook.
jadi, satu dunia tak tau. takde la orang menyampah!

haih. im not against school kid yang ada fb ni
but i really hate tengok budak sekolah yang perasan adult ni
wah sekarang ni, darjah 3 lagi dah pandai belit tudung
siap makeup segala.amboi.lawan tokey
and tergedik-gedik post gambar.masyaAllah
rasa macam nak tegur ja.
tapi takkan la.kang mak bapak dia pulak yang bermasam muka dengan cik kak ni

last-last, hide ajer la.senang cerita.takde la aku nak mengamuk tak pepasal kan.hahahaha..senang sikit

and ada pulak tu, yang suka post looking for attention
merayu nak boipren la, marah boipren la,lepastu baik balik la
hoi hoi..gaduh harini, esok baik balik pun nak mengadu. dah la aku tak kenal.
memang aku unfriend jerla even mutual friend ramai sangat!haha..evil gila.lantak

so basically, nak up status is not wrong
facebook sendiri, jadinya, suka hati la kan
but save something extra untuk diri sendiri is better.

such a double triple joy!

16 October 2012

A birthday of my dear husband and my dear brother.

they share the same date, so its easier for me to remember.ahaha..nope!

long before, I was having a big argument with my boyfriend

he called me many time but I didnt pick up

the next morning, when he tried to make amend

i was still in the bad mood

suddenly, i heard my sister sing happy birthday to my dear brother

what a shame!

his own girlfriend forget the most important date.what?hahahahaha

that's why he was trying to reach me the night before

hahaha..im so sorry my husband!

eventhough he said that, its okay and he forgive me

deep down inside, i know that he still remember.sorry sayang.haha

anyway, this year is a bit different.

as my sister receive another bundle of joy

ahmad thaqif.he is so cute, so small, his weight is bout 2.3kg only!

but he's perfect!alhamdulillah.he is such a fighter

selalu kacau while he's slepping because all of his gesture is so cute!haha..

even his momma doesnt realize that he's in the womb for almost 5 months

he survive and, just perfectly healthy.alhamdulillah.alhamdulillah

a month before the due date, his momma is a bit worried as his weight is like a 7months baby

but, i assure her that, it's gonna be fine

biar baby membesar di luar.it's better. the most important, he's healthy

and Allah granted our wish.

and he is impatience as he wanted to see the world a week before the due date.such a strong baby!

nak sambut birthday dengan paksu and pakngah yer?haha..

anyway, it's kinda late to post bout the birthday

as i didnt celebrate, yet

but, this deserve a special column

happy birthday my dear husband

my dear baby brother

and, thank you for being a survivor ahmad thaqif

the new baby born

a memory

it's november already.cepatnya masa berlalu.in 2 months, we bid goodbye to 2012

rasa macam baru belajar nak menulis tarikh 2012.tuptup dah kena ejas tulis 2013.hoih

baru ja lepas baca biodata suami.wakaka..and gelak macam hapa-hapa lagi

before getting married, im afraid that i dont know him too well

like what's he been craving or anything la

even we were together for almost 4 years, but sometimes

i think i actually didnt know what his favourite

i mean, i know what he like or what doesnt

but i don't know his favourite, what he's been hoping for a wife

so before getting married, like a week before

we both agreed to write and sum up what's our personal biodata.haha..sounds like a kid

that time, baca macam takde perasaan

it's like oo he like this, he's like that

haa..today, bila baca balik. memang tergelak besar

and he write bout how we meet.

sometimes i just wonder what is his first impression when he meet me 

why he want to know me so well.erk!hahaha..

and he always claim,im the one yang masuk jarum dulu.What??haha..

anyway, it's good to remember the first time when he laid his eyes on me

why i fall in love with him, why i told my bestfriend, i wanna married him the minute we declared as a couple

seriously.all this while, i know that, im gonna find my mr right when the time come

even im a bit naughty,haha.. but deep inside

i know myself so well that one day,

my prince will come and i'll be his forever.insyaAllah, 

eh melalut.haha..entry pemanas!